Does Tantra Touch Therapy Work?

Tantra as a practice and Tantric therapy such as Tantric massage, Tantra coaching, Tantra bodywork and Tantra counseling can be a very powerful vehicle for therapeutic change and sexual trauma recovery and in fact is an essential ingredient in the therapeutic treatment model

I just didn’t get it. I didn’t understand that I deserved gentle touch, to be held and adored. I didn’t understand that my Healing Tantra Massage could be a soul awakening. I also deserved to be gently guided to a place where I could be a whole woman, whole in this body, express my sexuality without judgement, express my hurts, express my sensuality and heal.

I needed a witness to my life, to this part of me that has been so traumatized, abused, damaged. The pain has always just sat there. I couldn’t release it. I have been in countless therapy sessions, I’ve spoken, I’ve cried, I’ve drawn … it still stayed.

No man has ever touched my soul with enough kindness to allow me to release it and heal. The way you hugged me was different from other men. Genuine compassionate touch. You sensed my hurt, really.I was so nervous and so worried about my response – that I would feel arousal – that I almost didn’t go for my massage session.

I did go…I entered into this sacred space with you fully present and fully ready to experience this wonderful gift. It was a gentle safe space, accepting, whole, intimate and oh so kind. We did a short practice before you began my massage in which we looked deeply into each others eyes and I felt unconditional love and acceptance from you Mark.

I felt so supported in this journey. As we progressed my body did start responding with arousal, my greatest fear… You just gently told me to breath to feel it… go with it … experience it … I started to feel all the pain from my gang rape too…even though I was scared of the pain I breathed through it and it became tangible in my Yoni during the massage.

The next day, I had my first period in 8 years. Such a blessed release. My journey has just started, much to unlock and clear. I have attracted a wonderful man, a partner with whom I will be present, beautiful to him and take him with me to a sacred space. Mark you’ve unlocked my soul, a soul awakening. Thank you angel man. Izanne from Johannesburg.

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I just didn’t get it. I didn’t understand that I deserved gentle touch, to be held and adored. I didn’t understand that my Healing Tantra Massage could be a soul awakening. I also deserved to be gently guided to a place where I could be a whole woman, whole in this body, express my sexuality without judgement, express my hurts, express my sensuality and heal.

I needed a witness to my life, to this part of me that has been so traumatized, abused, damaged. The pain has always just sat there. I couldn’t release it. I have been in countless therapy sessions, I’ve spoken, I’ve cried, I’ve drawn … it still stayed.

No man has ever touched my soul with enough kindness to allow me to release it and heal. The way you hugged me was different from other men. Genuine compassionate touch. You sensed my hurt, really.I was so nervous and so worried about my response – that I would feel arousal – that I almost didn’t go for my massage session.

I did go…I entered into this sacred space with you fully present and fully ready to experience this wonderful gift. It was a gentle safe space, accepting, whole, intimate and oh so kind. We did a short practice before you began my massage in which we looked deeply into each others eyes and I felt unconditional love and acceptance from you Mark.

I felt so supported in this journey. As we progressed my body did start responding with arousal, my greatest fear… You just gently told me to breath to feel it… go with it … experience it … I started to feel all the pain from my gang rape too…even though I was scared of the pain I breathed through it and it became tangible in my Yoni during the massage.

The next day, I had my first period in 8 years. Such a blessed release. My journey has just started, much to unlock and clear. I have attracted a wonderful man, a partner with whom I will be present, beautiful to him and take him with me to a sacred space. Mark you’ve unlocked my soul, a soul awakening. Thank you angel man. Izanne from Johannesburg.


 

The days leading up to my first Healing Yoni Massage were filled with anxiety and apprehension due to not knowing exactly what the process involved but throughout it all, Mark was very reassuring.  When I met him the morning of the session I automatically felt safe and accommodated.  Mark is such a warm spirit, the session itself felt so natural.  I was calm and relaxed, all thanks to him.  He lets you in to his space, making it easy for you to allow him into yours.

He creates a sacred and safe space for you to explore your feelings and emotions.  There were moments of raw pain and also moments of lots of laughter.  Contrary to what some might be inclined to believe, there is absolutely nothing sexual about a Healing Yoni massage.

For me, it was an awakening of emotions, putting past hurts to rest and embracing my sexual desires. That one session has made such a difference in my life.  I feel lighter, my minder clearer.  I have an overwhelming sense of peace.  I am more in touch with my sexuality.

Mark is a true healer; mind, body and soul.  May he continue to heal others the same way he has healed me. Thank you, Lumka

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Dear Mark, how can I adequately word the lasting physical and emotional effect of our session? Your room is a womb. I entered as an adult, naked, and you nurtured and loved me for 3 hours, in purity of intention.

When a baby is born, the ‘after birth’ is incinerated. When you massaged my body, so carefully and so sensitively, my ‘after-life’ was incinerated in the process. By ‘after life’ I mean all the trauma and shame and blame I’ve kept prisoner on a cellular level in my dear body for over 60 years. I had no idea how I might react and was delighted to discover myself as an active participant, expelling all those repressed emotions as they arose. It’s no wonder I feel years younger, more alive and constantly bursting out laughing!

Thank you for creating a safe haven for me to explore and express. Your generosity and heart-space is overwhelming. You were not a distant professional, Mark, you were as vulnerable as I was and so in tune with my body and my emotions. God has given you a powerful gift which you use with discretion. Mirabelle from Johannesburg


Mark, sometimes we must all step into the darkness. The step may lead nowhere, but we all must take it. My visit to you was a step into the darkness – I was afraid and was unsure if it was the right thing to do. But it led to something special. Thank you for caring.

You know what to do and say

You know what to do and say, to touch a heart and make a day.

You know the perfect gift, to give a spirit that extra lift.

Thank you for your thoughtfulness, you really made me smile.

Thank you for being you, with your special style.

May you be blessed with good things and never feel deprived.

May your life be always full of love, as long as you’re alive.” HM from Pretoria


Since sharing my experience, it’s amazing how many other people have opened up to share theirs. It all started when Mark, seeing my frustration and distress at a Facilitators Meeting, kindly offered a Tantra Massage session to my husband and myself.

From the start, my husband was not at all keen and declined. I could understand his apprehension being extremely anxious, yet I myself was surprisingly intrigued. When the day arrived, I was really tempted to cancel, but I hate ‘letting people down’!

When I arrived in the treatment room, for the first 45 minutes I tried to convince both Mark and myself that this was not going to work. Fortunately Mark’s pleasing presence and gentle voice put me at ease as I nervously jabbered and started sobbing uncontrollably.

Only then, did I give myself permission to admit how profoundly I had been affected by ‘inappropriate sexual behaviour’ around the age of 8, the details of which are buried so deep that I cannot recall them.

Mark explained the coping mechanism that my mind, body and soul had adopted to survive and just get through my life till now. I had refused to accept or openly acknowledge what happened to me. For nearly an hour I tried convincing Mark that I couldn’t go through with the massage.I was trembling at the thought of lying totally naked on the massage couch. Mark understood and empathetically made sure that I was modestly covered at all times – what a relief!

Being able to let go of the fear helped me to enjoy the various sensations evoked by the reassuring and caring massage that Mark so professionally administered. I felt safe! And afterwards? I couldn’t stop sneezing and peeing, as I released years and years of irritability and ‘pissed off-ness’! Such a Divine Relief! It was the start of a very truly positive shift in my life, for which I sincerely thank Mark.

For all those people with similar childhood experiences, please do consider a Healing Tantra massage with Mark. The thought may be terrifying but facing the fear is a healthy step in dealing with your past.              A from Sandton


Mark, I have been thinking about Thursday’s session, my second session with you. I was wonderfully relaxed and at ease. I swear the body massage is so relaxing I could fall asleep in a blissful state. I also noticed that I felt some numbness and a bit out of touch with my sensual self. I continued to relax and breathe deeply like you showed me and let my numbness go gently and went back to feeling at peace with what I was feeling. I know I am in the process of reaching the space of embracing and enjoying sensual intimacy again. Kath


The practices, techniques and concepts in my Tantra Massage are designed to penetrate all three layers of your consciousness — physical senses, mental models and your energetic blueprint. I channel love from Source into your body. The result is deep transformation of the self that often spills into every aspect of your life. You’ll be a different person after this journey.

 

Healing Process explained

 

When we work together, our outcome is for you to restore a harmonious balance between your inner feminine and masculine once again so that you can feel completely at home in your body. My attention is on you healing your body and your mind through awareness practices and safe touch body work from me. The healing is a structured process of sessions that involves compassion and gentleness.

You yourself will be healing all the energy centers in your body through bringing new awareness to them. We will also use safe bodywork to help you to heal you body and mind.

We chat for about fifteen minutes to get a sense of where you are and I answer any questions you have.

In your first session, I give you a two hour Healing Tantra Massage to help you experience a safe non invasive male energy. This includes a healing Yoni massage(your whole pelvic region and your whole vulva). I wear massage underwear during this massage and you are naked. A small number of clients prefer to have their genitals covered until they start to feel safe and can relax. The fee for this is R1 200.

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You take a few days, usually about seven, to integrate the results of your Healing Tantra Massage.

In your second session, I give you a one hour Holistic full body massage in which I balance your chakras and the energy field around your body using polarity therapy. This helps to clear toxic energy and congestion from your body and is R600.

The most common feeling you may experience in your first two sessions could be one of numbness.

Numbness is your body’s way of coping with your experience so that you can go into almost a “what basic stuff must I do next to get through today”. Unfortunately, numbness also blocks all feelings of joy, happiness, connection and vitality. In other words, numbness blocks out the bad and the good.

A week apart, for your third and fourth sessions I suggest Heart Based Coaching Processes in which I help you to process whats moving inside you at this stage, without you feeling ashamed or judged in any way. The fee for these sessions is R600

These four sessions are interchangeable, depending on your level of safety and comfort.

My mobile is 082 255 5906. Call me for a free 10 minute discovery session to see whether your body wants this.

 

Have you been abused by a family member?

 

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